You nailed the whole “closure to rejection” part. That happened to me recently, and it tore me up. I couldn’t get out of my head, questioning myself in ways I haven’t in a long time. Still questioning, still eating at me, still wondering if my reality is different than other’s (maybe I’m way off on how I think people see me….), but it’s not consuming me anymore. I can’t do anything about it- beyond making sure I’m not in the wrong- and I won’t let it destroy me.